Dear men, If you want to engage your partner in your sexual fantasies, here are three simple rules that will at least get you started in the right direction: To loosely quote something only semi funny that I heard… 1) Make it about her 2) […]
When Rihanna dropped her sexy, NSFW video for her song Bitch Better Have my Money I hear a lot of, “WTF, women complain they don’t want to be treated like a sex object, and then they parade around naked!” Don’t even get me started on […]
As we begin to learn more about gender and sexuality, it’s clear: sexuality is not black or white. So why does it seem that men are not allowed to be bisexual? Why do they have to be one or the other? Don’t men get to […]
A few days ago, Kinkly published a lovely piece by writer Jillian Boyd about applying mindfulness practices in the bedroom. Her piece, which cited a study by Pascal de Sutter – he’s a professor at the University of Louvain department of Sexology and Family Science […]
I have a friend who is an Asian woman from a Muslim Asian country whom I meet up with every once in a while when she ventures to this part of the world. She’s loud, funny, open-minded, and loves to talk about sex – which […]
Probably not something you want to hear, nor someone who you would imagine in the role of a role model. But hear me out here. I am fascinated and inspired by Miley Cyrus. Since her ‘coming out’ with the unfortunate (unfortunate because Robin Thicke was […]
Earlier this month, legislators in two states in the US, Kansas and Arkansas, set the clock of progress in equality rolling backwards by passing laws that once more make it legal to discriminate against the LGBT community. In Kansas, this philosophical and socio-political regression was […]
Today a bunch of new friends and I were discussing pop culture when the subject of Miley Cyrus came up. I was a little surprised that the women in the group were giving her so much slack for her current lifestyle choices. They called her […]
Men have competed for women’s attention since the beginning of time. It happens with any other species, and we’re not an exception to that rule. We are, though, more prone to have an ego about our progressive nature as human beings, and many of us […]
