Ah, Craigslist… that wonderful website you can use to find a place to live, household furniture, jobs, and a casual sex partner. A friend of mine we will call Julia allowed me to share her last casual encounter; no matter what you think, trolling for […]
Society seems to have a love/hate relationship with prostitution and sex workers. For the most part, a lot of people still believe decriminalizing sex work would result in utter chaos. Sex work wouldn’t be the oldest profession in the world if there wasn’t a market […]
I’ve got a thing for guys’ hands. I think they often indicate what a guy’s dick looks like – how long and thick the fingers are, and the shape, size, and sturdiness of the hands. I once told this to my friend Duncan, who’s gay, […]
When my boyfriend and I had only been dating for a couple of weeks I casually asked him over a shared bottle of wine,“Do I look like either of your parents at all?” “Not my parents… maybe my Grandma… but only in the chest region…” […]
It was a perfect day in late May and I was on an iced coffee mission in a bucolic section of Brooklyn, New York. It’s a neighborhood notorious for its overgrown legions of (bratty) kids and (entitled) parents, the kind of neighborhood where oblivious women […]
I like novelties. I don’t like surprises. And there are some areas that are just restricted. But then how would my lover know that? Where are the boundaries? What is considered normal? How do you know when you are about to cross the line? I’m […]
Continuing on from Part V of That One Relationship, Jimmy Yitzak concludes his story… He and I talked every so often throughout the summer. I even bumped into him a few times on the street. He would always tell me how much he missed me and that […]
Continuing on from the doubts expressed in Part IV of That One Relationship, Jimmy talks about the increasing sense of literal and figurative dislocation… It was now the end of May. I still had that gnawing feeling that something wasn’t right but I kept it to […]
π What’s better than motorcycles and pie? Riding a motorcycle! My Honda and I have driven from coast to coast in sun and rain, on asphalt and dirt. Customizing and upkeep proved easier on the Hawk. I was sure that little 650 could make it, […]
Continuing on from Part III of That One Relationship, Jimmy Yitzak now talks about trying to silence those niggling doubts in the face of the inevitable… We finally scheduled a night to meet. My friend begged me to meet him in a neutral area but […]
Continuing on from Part II of his Talking About That One Relationship series, in this third installment Jimmy Yitzak looks at what happens when the rug is pulled… “He seems to really like you,” his mother said to me. Confirmed! Yes, even his mom can see […]
Continuing on from Part I of his Talking About That One Relationship series, in this second installment Jimmy Yitzak discusses those initial, sometimes uncertain moments… “Let’s go back to your place,” he said. Now, I’m not prude. I normally don’t have any problem bringing someone […]
In a new six-part series, Talking About That One Relationship, Jimmy Yitzak talks candidly about something we’ve all experienced… the relationship that messes you up good… As we go through life, we all have that one relationship that fucks us up really well. Some of us […]
Girl talk. We used to play spin the bottle and truth or dare. Tonight we have decided to dare to tell the truth. The version we don’t want anybody to know about. Guys, if only you could be a fly on the wall. You would […]
My girlfriend and I had our monthly reunion. So many things that have been said and done in our lives over the past month. She went first. The other day in her office at lunchtime she was imagining she was a famous writer of erotic […]
A few years ago, when I was living in New York City, I was pretty lonely and being that I didn’t really like going to gay bars, I decided to join an Internet dating website. Now, I didn’t spring for Match.com because, well, you have […]
