Golden Showers: Confessions of a Pee-Lover

August 29, 2015
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Golden Showers: Confessions of a Pee-Lover

These kind of water sports are economical, environmentally friendly and don’t require skis, snorkels or wetsuits. The only thing you need is a relatively strong stomach and a keen sense of adventure. You may be more familiar with the term “golden showers”, or even “piss play” to make it sound cutesy.

I spoke with a couple of local kinksters here in Australia, Paul and Vanessa, who’ve been married for 5 years and pissing on each other for 2.

Were either of you into water-sports prior to meeting each other or is this something that grew from your relationship?

Paul: It’s something I’ve been interested in and turned on by since I was a kid but Vanessa is the only one I’ve ever felt I could tell. It’s not something you can just bring up on a first date.

Vanessa: I was in a very boring relationship prior to meeting Paul, very “vanilla” as they call it, and we met online so I already knew that he was a little kinkier than I was used to. I’m kinky too but hadn’t had a chance to explore before.

So now you’re more of a vanilla sundae?

Vanessa: Yeah for sure, there’s a swirl of something…

Golden Showers: Confessions of a Pee-Lover

How did it all start?

Vanessa: Well, like in most relationships you start to get a bit lazy with boundaries like leaving the door open when you go to the toilet. We have no problem with using the toilet while the other one is in the room and I started to notice Paul watching me subtly and over time it got less and less subtle… until he was stepping out of the shower to cup his hands under me.

Did that freak you out?

Vanessa: Not really, because when we’d watch porn I’d noticed that on the odd occasion he’s choose a vid that “just happened” to have peeing in it so there was an inkling and as I said, it was gradual.

Is it a free for all or is one person always the pisser and another the pissee?

Paul: Generally I’m the “pissee”, I get more excited seeing her squatting over me, watching and hearing it, especially when she’s desperate.

Golden Showers: Confessions of a Pee-Lover

Explain the appeal to someone who’s unaccustomed.

Vanessa: I always enjoyed having cum on me, on my face or chest… anywhere. One of the best elements for me was the temperature, you know you’re all sweaty from pumping away, your skin is cool from the sweat and then you get this warm load of cum and it’s exhilarating. Pee is the same, so warm, it envelops you. Another element is the sensation that you feel from a full bladder, kind of like when you cum.

Paul: Also, you’re doing something that most couples keep private from each other, letting each other be involved in this is just bringing us closer together.

Vanessa: And it’s not just about peeing on each other, there are lots of other ways to play with it.

Indulge me…

Vanessa: Drinking it, enemas, some people get into diapers. We do like playing with bladder control though. We like to make sure I’m nice and full and then Paul will tickle me until I can’t control it and let go. He likes to see the moisture seep through the fabric.

Golden Showers: Confessions of a Pee-Lover

The tickling sounds almost… sweet?

Vanessa (giggling): It really is!

Easy there. For me there’s a distinct difference between the acrid scent of a man’s urine compared to the chicken noodle soupiness of a female’s. Is the smell an issue, good or bad?

Vanessa: For me I don’t enjoy the smell but it’s not enough to put me off.

Paul: I like the smell, probably because of association, but we do try to dilute it by drinking lots of water beforehand. Then also, you get more of it.

There’s a pretty obvious parallel here between an animal marking its territory by pissing on it and pissing on your partner. Is there an element of marking going on?

Paul: Of course, and piss is used in a lot of BDSM humiliation play too. It’s not like we’d leave the house reeking of each other’s piss to ward off others but the fact that you only do it with your significant other is special.

Golden Showers: Confessions of a Pee-Lover

So is it all done in the safety of a bathroom?

Vanessa: We experimented in bed because Paul liked the idea of seeing the sheets soaked but it was way too much washing and the plastic mattress covers proved a bit annoying when we weren’t turned on – too noisy.

Would you find it outrageous to say this fascination partly stemmed from your childhood?

Paul: Although nothing untoward happened when we were children, I do have strong memories of myself and my siblings wetting ourselves. And in a family of 5 kids there’s not a lot of room for privacy.

What would you say to the haters, to anyone who says it’s dirty or disgusting?

Paul: Some people think cunnilingus is dirty, for others it’s kissing. Horses for courses, I ‘spose.

Ok, guys, well thanks for an informative afternoon, and no doubt I’ll think of you guys every time I pee from now on. 

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