Hey guys, guess what? There are a lot of women out there who love, I mean LOVE to give blowjobs. I know this is true because I am one of them.

For me, blowjobs are the very best foreplay. I get so turned on that I have almost climaxed many times from that alone. One of my greatest sexual turn-ons is giving pleasure. Another of my greatest sexual turn-ons is sound. The sound of heavy breathing. Of moaning. Of intense pleasure! And I love the feeling of power I get when I have a man’s penis in my mouth. When I know that every pause or lick or quickening can drive the intensity in either direction. Until the inevitable climax when there’s no turning back and ahhhhhh, a little masturbation amidst the abandon can take us both into the great divide. The place of pure sensation and no control. And then breathless, the coming back into the room with the ocean’s foam so salty and potent on my lips. I float for a moment, knowing we’ve been lost together if even only for a brief encounter.

I’ve met woman who don’t appreciate the pure ecstasy of fellatio but I’ve met many more men who assume that woman don’t enjoy it. The only times I haven’t enjoyed giving a blowjob have been with men who haven’t really enjoyed receiving them. It’s a rare occurrence for sure but it has happened. Without the pleasure, the turn on is completely lost.

Giving good head is all about confidence. On those rare occasions when I’ve been with unresponsive men it’s been a downward spiral. They’re not enjoying it so I’m not enjoying it so it all just sucks. Pun intended! If you ever find yourself in that situation, help to guide your lover out of the position for the sake of ending on a better note as well as preserving the desire on her (or his) part to try again with somebody more compatible.

After all, there’s a hundred ways to please your lover!